Long story short , she is in her 50’s and in the workforce. He is younger and always checking her out. Neither are married or in a relationship. In terms of quality, operation, functionality, reliability, expandability defines the direction for the future. A powerful choice for new refinement, built on the proven configuration of their predecessors. Let the power mix begin.
The word cougar is not necessarily one women want to be associated with. Predatory in nature seems to tie in with ‘game’ and’ black widow,’ also negative connotations.
Online dating is just one way to meet someone. It’s no different than being in your twenties or thirties but just because you’ve reached what used to be middle aged doesn’t mean you’ve stopped having sex. Why does the younger generation things that? Maybe it’s the idea that the older generation is their parents age. Young guys love the energy of an older woman, today’s woman has plans and dreams if she’s got ambition and it’s appealing. Pursuing them and the possibilities are endless. It’s also been discovered that prime women are using technology the most and ruling the world.
Men the same age have become lazy and less chivalrous for lack of a better word right now. A powerful woman who sees herself as having exceptionally high value isn’t the one to jump into a power man’s girly black book. Men in their 50’s are bitter to pursue. Communication is a one-way street after nasty divorces or child custody battles. Women just want to have fun coming to this stage in life. The variety comes in finding men to go out without any of the hard work and emotional baggage.
Post-divorce women still want to find love. The idea of a ‘cougar’is nothing new but it is definitely more prevalent now that women make up over half of the work force. The double standard still exists for the young and old judgmental and crotchety. Older men are applauded for dating a younger women while older women are looked at as if they are old and pathetic and will get taken somehow.
Text is cheap. Say it, do it, action is what any relationship needs. Modern women like to pretend they are not looking for anything. Expect to find what it is you are looking for. Women still like to be pursued to some extent and a younger man is willing to take that step yet let her pursue her goals and tend to her family.
Women take better care of their bodies now and full sexual expression is healthy. A willing partner is a powerful chemistry. If you are fearful he will cheat and doubting your worth you will not be able to accept that fact that this younger man could also fall in love with you. Your fears and insecurities at this time in your life could ruin any relationship. This man knows how old you are and he is willing to accept you for who you are. The illusion of the fountain of youth can torture even the most lovely and beautiful of women.
Security and love. It’s said that the reason a younger man is happy with an older man is security and money. The idea for any partner is to find one that understands and empathizes. In the long run great love and sacrifice is ideal. No one wishes to be dumped in their later years its messy and not pretty. To love someone is to enjoy active years together and to not allow the challenges of old age to hold you back. It’s true that there are younger people who are ‘old’ souls, they know what they want in life and take an optimistic approach to aging. It is possible to have a secure and loving relationship. ‘Cougar’ couples do it all of the time and so do older men with younger women.
The one driving force that will make or break any relationship is common ground and what you share with each other. The time that you spend together doing thing you both enjoy will keep the relationship strong and going. Albeit you both need to have your own personal interests. Talk about family planning and expectations. Communication is key in the relationship no matter what you are looking for.