A coincidence is a red flag, there is a message here in your universe and you should pay attention to it. It is one in which the running themes and messages become clearer for you. Keep track of the coincidences in your life by writing them down. The connection to universal soul is tremendous. You do not need to judge or analyze it. Just watch it, your life like a movie. Take notes. You may see or notice things popping up in meaning that you did not notice during the busyness of your day or evening. Tune in and turn on man. It sounds like an old phrase from the seventies, doesn’t it.
The language of the universe speaks to you and life can be confusing and painful if you are not sure how to decipher it. It is very much like trying to talk to someone close to me who wishes to know how to listen or to use their intuition. All I have are life’s words to describe experience with when there is more to it and different words may be needed to explain to someone who is not experiencing the universe yet on these terms, fully aware. They may be doing it already and not sure what to look for or they are totally experiencing the material world and the meanings we are given by ego. So what is coming in by way of the inner dimension is not trusted and has been placed aside or ignored.
People want to see or know where to look for the answers. People tend not to trust what the experience is because they may have been told that their experience is “the devil,” wrong or bad, Other times they may want to make you wrong or bad for explaining to them what is holy. What could be more holy than to being able to communicate with your higher self, your Godhead? Being open to it and taking the information in order to divert it to some lesser meaning does not go by unnoticed. If you truly want to know something the answer will be revealed to you.
Sometimes the information will come up in a way or experience you were not expecting. It is like saying that only your learning can come from a book or in school but there are different kinds of learning and even more ways that learning can come through to you. Just because the information isn’t coming directly to you from the President or your minster, or whom every your holy or atheist mentor may be to you, doesn’t mean it is not a message.
You need to trust your connection with the universe; it pays to trust in yourself because your universe is endless. Maybe you notice certain topics, patterns or themes keep coming up over the days. It could be a road sign, it could be your dog, it could be your boss at work. If you want to know you need to take the time, and it may be days that it takes for you to listen. There are many reasons why it is a good idea to keep a diary or journal. So you have time to write it out what you may have been too busy to notice during your day. The universe wants you to know and the more you work along these lines the more the universe works with you to get you the answers you seek. You don’t keep running into the same message or person for no reason.
Sometimes I write it out and think and think on it to no avail. Then I ask a friend or family member why do you think this keeps coming up, and they pop out the very answer just like that. Sometimes a person can be so far of the path they wish to be on. They have a set way or a set thought process they expect the answer can come in to them on. A very obvious message can go very clearly unnoticed. Sometimes a hammer hits you in the head, sometimes it’s a concrete block, and sometimes it is a tap on the shoulder or light conversation over coffee.
My own personal experience is that sometimes messages very clearly come to me via someone I feel is not doing something that is very nice to someone else. They are doing something clearly that is deceiving to them. The message or advice they may give to me may be spot on. I put it on the back burner and let it stew over and mull over it wondering for months sometimes if it is some action I should take. When I finally get around to acting on it there is much relief. It worked. Why didn’t I do this sooner, because I did not trust.
I have learned to stop judging others because of that. What may look “wrong” to me is not my business and is their own experience. It has its own meaning to them. Meanwhile I totally missed my own message which had been banging me in the head all along. My suffering was much longer than it needed to be. My conclusion postponed.
Like a television has channels, I learned to be more like a radio and fine tune in. Open your heart honestly and with the intention of wanting to connect seriously. You need to let go of your preconceived notions that things can only happen a certain way in the world. Just be allowing. Allow it to come and let go of any personal investment in it.
Surrender, it is a funny thing to most of us. If you want the universe to be honest with you then you need to not try to make the universe see it your way. Let go of any attachment or investment in time to it you may feel you have by way of tie or whatever the case may be. Don’t over complicate things. When you know, you know, there will be no doubt in your gut/mind. Don’t let people argue you out of the truth it’s the same thing, a useless obstacle.