If you suspect your husband or boyfriend of cheating on you with someone at work, attending his company Christmas party with him is the best way to find out the truth. You’re almost certain to either confirm your suspicions. or set your mind at ease.
Company-sponsored social events like the annual Christmas party give you a rare opportunity to observe your man’s interactions in a social setting with the female co-workers and business associates he works with all year long. Here’s how to maximize your attendance at your husband’s or boyfriend’s company Christmas party if you suspect that he may be romantically involved with someone on his job.
Introduce yourself to his female co-workers.
Let your partner’s workmates know who you are. Be friendly. Socialize. Someone he works with who has high moral values may be dying to let you know that he’s cheating on you with someone on his job.. Every December, concerned women and men ponder over whether or not it’s okay to take a cheating workmate’s wife or girlfriend aside at the company Christmas party, and let her know he’s having a workplace affair.
Listen to the office gossip.
Stay alert. Keep your ears open. There’s no telling what you might overhear. One wife overheard the following comment about her husband at his company Christmas party: “That’s his wife? He’s married? But I thought he was seeing Maureen.”
Observe him as he interacts with female co-workers and business associates
Pay attention to how your husband or boyfriend interacts with workmates of the opposite sex. If he’s romantically involved with someone at work, their body language or behavior around each other will give them away — even in little ways. But knowing what to look for is the key.
If you’re not sure what to look for
If you’re unsure of what to what to look for to confirm or disprove your suspicions of infidelity, you might want to invest in a reputable infidelity book like Is He Cheating on You? 829 Telltale Signs and check out the clues in the chapter entitled His Behavior around Other Women, as well as some of the signs of workplace infidelity in the chapter entitled Work Habits. For more information on this book, click here. Available in both e-book and soft cover versions, In this day and age you can’t afford to be the last one to know.
NOTE: This article is part of the annual Christmas Infidelity Awareness Campaign which is now in its 8th year. To make sure you don’t miss any of the other Christmas-related infidelity articles in this series, check back often or subscribe to this column. The next article in the Christmas Infidelity Awareness Campaign article series will feature 2 real life accounts of how Christmas parties exposed 2 workplace affairs, and provide specific information on how attending the annual Christmas party with your husband or boyfriend can safeguard your relationship by acting as a deterrent to workplace infidelity.